Take a Knee and Drink Water: Mental Health in the Army

Thereโ€™s a saying in the Army: โ€œTake a knee, pull security, and drink some water.โ€ Some extra-caring people might even add, โ€œRub some dirt on it.โ€ If your medic is extra loving, they might even tell you to change your socks. Itโ€™s what you say when someone gets injured or otherwise incapacitated, usually out in …

The Wait

There is a feeling or event, which is not unique to the military community, but they may have the most experience with it. It is something which I can only describe as The Wait. It starts with a notification, blip on the news, note on social media. A flight commander with a carefully blank face …

Channeling Anger into Action

At two oโ€™clock in the afternoon on September 11, 2001, I heard a knock at my door. There stood a young sailor who handed me a flyer and said, โ€œThank you for your assistance.โ€ To my shock, my husband was getting called up for a spontaneous deployment. The flyer had a list of items I …

Army Unit Numerical Designations: Where do they come from?

If youโ€™re like me, youโ€™ve always wondered where some of the wonky unit numbers in the US Army come from. Like, where did the other 99 airborne divisions other than the 82nd and 101st go? Did we ever have 503 infantry regiments at the same time? The answer comes down as a combination of some …

The Case Against Starbuck: Why Talent is Not Enough

                For anyone who watched television in the early 2000s (oh, woe be upon us before the era of on-demand, streamable drama), Battlestar Galactica was a staple of the weekly line up. For anyone who was not an avid fan, the show featured an ensemble cast and their struggle against the Cylons, a race of …

The Real Failure at Winterfell

Much ink has been expended on the follies of the Army of the Living at the Battle of Winterfell. But the antics of Jon and Daenerys stand as military genius compared to the Night King. He could have won the entire war without risk through manoeuvre. Only his obsession with a decisive battle doomed his …

The Importance of Being a Self-Aware Leader

"You're in the Army, you must not have any problems being assertive. You just say things and people do them, right?" Sitting in my counselor's office, these words fell on my ears and caused me to smile. Even in parts of the public where people are more familiar with the military, the idea of the …

Want to build a combat focused culture in your unit? Start with your language

Guest post by LTC Scotty M. Autin Letโ€™s do a test.ย  Close your eyes and tell me what you think about when you hear the words โ€œdreamsโ€, โ€œcreativityโ€, โ€œfantasyโ€, โ€œsmilesโ€, โ€œmagicโ€, and โ€œgenerationโ€.ย  Odds are, you probably thought about some variation of Disney. If so, then youโ€™re a product of Disneyโ€™s brilliant brand language strategy. …

Fixing Veterans Day

On Veterans Day, at my sonโ€™s request, I sat in a crowded elementary assembly as part of a Veterans Day ceremony.  I listened uncomfortably to fifth and sixth graders repeat what they had been taught in their classrooms about veterans and about military service: that veterans represent the best our country has to offer, that …

What is Our Service?

Veterans' Day. I am one of hundreds of thousands of service members. You are one of millions of people. You see me, and thank me for my service. I thank you for your support, and we go on our ways. It's a tried and true formula; I am thanked, and therefore gratified for public support, …